Monday, April 13, 2009

Your Cheating Wife

By Hesinar Nalartino

So you think your wife is cheating on you. For a lot men in the country, there comes a time when they suspect this and have to deal with it. It is estimated that approximately 12% of women cheat on their husband, it is not as high a statistic as that of men which is 22%. This probably does not make you feel any better, but it does happen though not near as often.

There is always a reason that you suspect that your wife is cheating on you. It is not probably because you are paranoid, althought this can be part of it too, but unlikely. Take a look at what she is doing during the day. Are there times when she should be doing something but she is not?

It could be it is because she is doing somethng she is not supposed to e doing. Do not jump to conclusions though, it is important to remain calm and assess the situation.

Is your wife spending time somewhere (supposedly the office) but can not exactly explain where she is, it just does not ad up to you where she is going. For example, she says she is going to be at work until 8pm, but you suspect that she is not and she does not show up from work until 10pm. If something smells funny, then something is most likely going on. If there are large holes in her schedule then it is probably something that you need to look further into.

Have you noticed that her attitude has changed as well, especially towards you and your relationship? Has she become distant and not doing the loving things that she used to do. Is she spending money in places that are unknown to you? This may or may not mean anythng, but it would be a smart move if you got to the bottom of it as soon as possible.

Have you noticed that she is spending time with one person in particular and they seemed to come from nowhere. When you ask how she knows them she becomes aloof and disinterested. Is there someone's house she seems to be always going to? This could spell something is wrong with the relationship. Is she taking trips, possibly day trips or small vacations without you? If she was doing this before you even got married or dated, then it may be okay, but if it is a recent development then you may have problems.

Even if you answer yes to mot of these questions, it is important that you do not start pointing the finger just yet. Start doing some research on the subject. Did you find a strange telephone number or name in her blouse pocket or skirt when you were doing the laundry? Why not take the time and look that information up on one of the people and telephone search sites.

If you have done your reearch and found a strange number or name in your wife's coat or blouse pocket, why not do yourelf a favor and look that information up in one of the many telephone number and people search engines on the internet? You can get to the bottom of what is going and and get the questions you need to get answered, answered. It will not be until you get to the bottom of what is going on, and get the question of whether your wife is cheaing or not, that you will be happy. Be sure to do your research and do not jump the gun, you owe it to yourself o be as happy as you can be.

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